12. How to Get A Girl To Like You

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If the girl likes you, she will keep seeing you. You’ll have plenty of time to get to those stages — and, just as important, to see if you are truly compatible. Focus on really getting to know her yourself first.

5 – Set Up A Treasure Hunt

So, the way that you have to approach it is to make her feel sexually attracted to you, get to a kiss, get to sex and then make sure that you’re not trying to push for a committed relationship. Sometimes you’ll meet a woman and both you and her will commit to each other immediately. Yet, for most women, prior to that, they don’t want to commit to the idea of being your girlfriend.

Brad Pitt? Yeah, sure, they’re attractive guys, but they sweat confidence.

• To get the girl, whoever she is, can seem impossible to a lot of guys, but it really isn’t as hard as it can seem.
• Stay away from thinking you must get noticed.
• Ask her to be your girlfriend, and I’m pretty sure you’re going to get a solid yes.

Just have a conversation, ask her about her interests, and take an interest in them. -Make it a policy to help people.

You could maybe even organise the ride before the end of the date. Women like a guy who plans – it bodes well for any relationship moving forward. Not only can you look after her, but you also actually think ahead. Some people say not to, but I always bring up past relationships. If you’re sizing her up to be girlfriend material, find out why she and her last partner broke up.

Instead, consider yourself as a remote worker, and get your business done in coffee shops and at freelancer meets. The girl who sits next to you at the coffee shop could be your next girlfriend.

Then talk to girls without an agenda, don’t build up a lot of desperate energy they can smell from a mile away, just talk to them about something they’re interested in and make it an actual conversation, listen instead of wait to talk, ask questions about their point of view and take it seriously. Don’t expect them to be a date, just get the practice talking to women without self imposed pressure, it’ll happen when you’re comfortable.

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This is still a question about values. If sex is important to you, and yuo are hoping she might become your future girlfriend, then what is she aligned with? If it seems that the two of you are not likely to be sexually compatible, longevity won’t really be an option. Be bold and assertive and raise this as an issue.