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Most likely you’ll get friend-zoned. Be assertive by making plans and being clear in your mind of what you want.

It’s a lot easier than you think – so stop thinking so much and start DOING what it takes because the answer you seek is right here. This rule is here to make sure you don’t just settle for that first girl. To assure you’re not chasing anymore.

Just have a conversation, ask her about her interests, and take an interest in them. -Make it a policy to help people.

Because this will put you in the friend zone. You’ll hurt yourself, and it will do you no good. We have seen, experienced and heard of many cases where a man thinks he is dating a woman — while she has seen it as a completely friendly relationship. When this finally becomes apparent to the man as well, he is understandably very hurt. She must know that you see her as a potential girlfriend — and not as a mere friend, or sex-friend.

No-No #3 – Skip The Boring

These allow you to throw out a comment or question that really gets a conversation going in the direction you want it to go. Then, pick your moment when she’s on her own or she isn’t in the middle of a conversation, and choose whether to approach alone or with a friend if you are too nervous to go on your own. This is actually a fairly easy step, since you probably know where to meet women because you know where women are (everywhere).

• You’ll have plenty of time to get to those stages — and, just as important, to see if you are truly compatible.
• A healthy relationship takes time to grow and develop into something real.
• If you’re doing everything right, you’re probably ready to find out how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend.
• But after doing that for a while, I realized it’s not what I really wanted.
• You have to master how to text a girl.

Instead, wait a little while to sleep with her. You don’t necessarily have to follow the “three date rule” or anything. But allow some time for you to both get to know each other well. And let her know that you’re interested in the possibility of having the relationship develop into something more serious that a mere fling.

After kissing or having had sex, this is more obvious. But before that, you should take care to remind her at times that this is a man talking to a woman, with all that that entails. Also… keeping a social life outside of the relationship helps to keep it fresh and lively, and lets you put it into perspective as an aspect of your life, rather that it being your entire life.

Because the more you know, the more prepared you’ll be for any situation — and the easier you’ll find it to attract girls, and make one of them your girlfriend. And remember, this stuff isn’t set in stone.

I don’t want to be dated because you’re looking for a woman to date, I want to be dated specifically because I’m me. You still have to talk to people and go out of your way to meet people and be a decent person, it’s just that it will be far more organic and easy to find someone you like after you’ve developed yourself. You’ll have something interesting to talk about, you’ll have tangible accomplishments to show off (which will in turn reinforce your confidence because you’ll have proof of how awesome you are), you’ll learn how to talk to people of varying ability levels (which will also train you how to adapt conversation to different types of listeners), and it will give you a driving force to keep working on yourself. Body language flirting can go a long way. According to Psychologia.com, the main element of body language flirting is highlighting your sexual differences in order to attract the opposite sex.

Perhaps even more so than confidence, ambition in a man is attractive. Women really don’t like lazy men, so someone who is ambitious and motivated to achieve things will instantly catch their attention. There is obviously a fine line; women don’t want a workaholic boyfriend. But it’s really good to be passionate about things (not just work) and if you’re motivated to achieve things, women will instantly find you more attractive and interesting.

If you don’t know, take a guess at where she might be and, through trial and error and asking people the right questions, you will find her. Women can’t help but love flowers and softly burning candles.