7 – Give Her The Message In A Balloon

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Trust me – when you’re a stand up guy, when you’re passionate about your life and you’re interested in living it, people (which does include women) will WANT to know about it and they’ll want you to share it with them. Communicate your life story to them in a way which is humble, fun, and interested (and creates a little attraction in women) and the right people WILL notice. Hey I’m Pete – (Peter White) – I run whydoguys.com for women and DiaLteG TM for guys like you. Simply put – I know WOMEN and what it’s going to take to get you the woman of your dreams.

After all, now that you have these feelings, what should you do with them? It might be a girl has already caught your eye. If that’s true, then how should you go about showing your feelings for her?

Therefore, do the best with the information you have, and make the best choices based on the situation. If things go awry, and she doesn’t reciprocate your advances or feelings, don’t act needy or lose your confidence.

Started off as a dirt poor dating coach before becoming one of the leading dating experts. I still don’t see myself as some crazy player but just a normal guy that loves the game. My goal is to help you find the woman of your dreams.

After all, there are many reasons a girl might not be interested in dating a boy. This is a pretty crucial moment.

• No matter how good looking or charming you are, rejection will be a natural part of life.
• Chat to as many women as you can, see if you ‘click’ and if so ask for her number.
• Well that’s the easy bit sorted for you gents, the next part is trying to keep her – but we’ll save that for another day.
• Have high expectations.
• The next steps are meeting the family and moving her into your place.

Treat her family with respect. When it comes time to meet her family, make sure you are giving them the same respect you would give her. A girlfriend’s family is bound to be very judgemental of a new boyfriend at first, so it’s important you prove them wrong. Look them in the eye, smile lots, and let them know they don’t have to worry that she’ll be spending a lot of time with you.

The classic techniques of extended eye contact, smiling and compliments work well. Make it clear you’re interested as more than a friend but don’t come on too strong otherwise she won’t think you’re looking for an actual relationship. Girls love confident men. Fact. Over-thinking everything and being nervous or afraid is not going to make a girl find you attractive.

It’s normal to be curious about dating in junior high. Talk to your parents or guardians to see if it’s okay for you to date. If it is, start small by just getting to know someone.

If you’ve already spent enough time building rapport, then ask her out and meet her. Don’t spend too much time flirting in messages. Nothing beats a face-to-face interaction.

You’ll start giving off the vibe that you don’t need women to make your life complete. You’ll take more risks, find approaching and talking to girls less daunting and won’t worry about the consequences. Talking about exes or girls who’ve slipped through your fingers – If you’re negative about past experiences with women you’ll sound bitter. If you’re positive you’ll sound like you’re still pining for someone.

Part of this “prep work” is to lay the foundation for a lifetime of success with women. If you settle too quickly you WILL revert back to your older self and you WILL lose the girl and then have to start all over again. If you settle too early it’s highly likely you’re going to screw it up sooner or later anyways. Getting a girlfriend is NOT getting the next “hot” girlfriend you see.